![]() ![]() ![]() If the person you are talking to makes it too hard to access that perfect person underneath, move on. In some people it is easier to see this perfect person than in others, and in some it is so hidden by strange pseudo personalities and other weird baggage that it is almost absent. ⌄ Scroll down to continue reading article ⌄ When you talk to a woman (or a man or a child) look for the perfect person and talk to him or her. We are most proud of the perfect person underneath. ![]() What we are most proud of is who we are innately. No one likes to be reminded of the bad parts of themselves or their painful past. ![]() We have crappy baggage and things in our past that haunt us but these things are not us and we know that. Underneath the clothing of skin and bones, we are perfect people. Look past the façade and see the real person beneath it. It is the secret of how to talk to anyone no matter who they are and to build interest and ultimately love with them. If all women are different individuals with different tastes and ideas, how in the name of all things Holy can you learn to talk to each and every one of them? Fear not! What I am about to share with you is a secret. What makes each person wonderful is that they are individuals. They each have their own loves and hates, hopes and dreams. You cannot start an argument with “Men are all ……” and not look ignorant, because all men aren’t anything. What this author did not realize is that men as individuals are very different from each other. ![]()
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